About Domina Anne Shirley

My name is Domina Anne Shirley, and I’m here to guide you back to your wholeness.

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I am a Professional Dominatrix who Dommes you into higher self-esteem, nervous system safety, and embodied leadership. Through a blend of somatic psychology and kink-centered transformation, I support individuals in reclaiming their power, exploring their desires, and living fully expressed, empowered lives.

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I’m also a Kink Integration Facilitator for somatic practitioners, coaches, and service providers who want to ethically and skillfully incorporate kink and BDSM into their work. My practice is rooted in trauma-informed care, nervous system literacy, and ethical dominance.

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With years of lived and professional experience in the BDSM and kink community, I’ve mastered the art of pleasure, power, and pain as tools for healing, awakening, and integration. I create safe, consensual containers where your deepest longings and fears can be explored with reverence.

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I support you in exploring your emotional, physical, mental, energetic, sexual, and spiritual edges.

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But what does it mean to explore an edge?

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Your edge is the edge of your window of tolerance, where the nervous system begins to react. It’s the place you feel discomfort and instinctively want to:

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• Run, avoid, or distract

• Push through and endure until burnout

• Freeze in overwhelm or confusion

• Fawn by over-functioning, caretaking, or collapsing your own needs

 

I help you meet these moments gently, not to override your nervous system, but to build your capacity to stay present with power, sensation, and emotion. Together, we stretch what’s possible without falling into harm or old survival strategies.

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This is how we reclaim trauma, not just through understanding, but through integration. Through this work, you begin to create a life, business, and relationships that feel safe, secure, sustainable, supported, and stable.

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Domina Anne Shirely is pro-lgbtqia+, pro-trans, pro-Black, pro-s3x worker, pro-human rights, pro-choice, and is very vocal about her values as a pansexual woman married to a queer identified veteran and 9/11 first responder who also shares her values on this. If you do not align with these values, please look to work with someone else.