My Approach

I approach this work through the lens of somatic psychology, a body-mind holistic perspective that is kink-centered, trauma-informed, and deeply attuned to who you are emotionally, physically, energetically, spiritually, and sexually.

My work is person-centered, which means I recognize that every client brings a unique constellation of needs, desires, and edges. Together, we co-create a customized experience that supports your specific goals and boundaries.

I act as a guide, mentor, and facilitator, walking with you on a journey of self-discovery, integration, and embodied empowerment that ripples into every area of your life, including relationships, business, intimacy, and personal leadership.

The Kink-Embodiment Method™

The methodology that grounds this work is called The Kink-Embodiment Method™—a trauma-informed, ethical, and embodied approach to BDSM and kink as pathways for personal development, emotional regulation, and somatic trauma healing.

This method is rooted in neuroscience, kink education, psychology, energy work, and real-world dominance experience. Below are the 5 core pillars that shape every client's process:

Pillar 1: Foundations of Trauma & Nervous System Awareness

Understanding fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses
How trauma lives in the body—and how BDSM can support release
The role of somatic awareness in healing and integration
Differentiating healing kink from re-traumatization
Core self-regulation practices before engaging in BDSM

Pillar 2: Consent, Boundaries & Power Dynamics

Practicing informed, ongoing, enthusiastic consent
Using power exchange as a healing and empowering tool
Setting and respecting boundaries for both Dom/mes and subs
Helping clients define limits, edges, and safe containers
Preventing coercion, manipulation, or reenactment in kink spaces

Pillar 3: Somatic Practices & BDSM Integration

Weaving somatic healing into scene structure
Using sensory play for nervous system regulation
Incorporating breathwork, movement, and energy tracking
Exploring subspace and top space as windows into self-awareness
Using sensation (pain, pleasure, texture) for emotional processing

Pillar 4: Ethical Considerations & Client Readiness

Screening clients for trauma readiness and psychological safety
Knowing when and how to refer out to licensed professionals
Navigating the ethical landscape of BDSM-informed coaching
Dismantling stigma, bias, and cultural myths around kink
Practicing radical self-responsibility as a practitioner

Pillar 5: Integration, Application & Long-Term Support

Supporting clients in meaning-making and emotional digestion
Creating aftercare, journaling, and debrief rituals
Building long-term nervous system regulation through kink
Creating safe community spaces for connection and belonging
Applying BDSM-informed tools within a broader professional practice

My Background

This work is rooted in over 15 years of experience with extensive education and training in:

Leadership development
Somatic psychology & trauma resolution
Spinal energetics & somatic EMDR
Kink, BDSM, and sacred sexuality
Energy work & spiritual integration
Pursuit of a PhD in Psychology with a specialization in Somatic Psychology

Sessions may include somatic processing, parts work, sacred kink rituals, nervous system mapping, coaching, energy work, and talk-based therapeutic integration. Every aspect is tailored to meet you where you are and expand your capacity for trust, power, and pleasure.

This Is a Safe Space

You are invited into a judgment-free, trauma-informed container where your desires are not pathologized, but honored. This is work that supports you in feeling in control, empowered, and brave enough to push your edges, knowing you are held with skill and reverence.

This is depth work.
This is leadership work.
This is emotional work.
This is embodied work.

Let’s create a personalized path forward, together.