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The Kink Embodiment-Method Mentorship™

A 6‑Month 1:1 Immersive for Nervous System Healing, Erotic Reclamation & Sacred Power Play

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Welcome to the Kink-Embodiment Method Mentorship™

This immersive mentorship program is for individuals who are ready to transform their trauma story through the body, power, and play. Using somatic-based practices, nervous system healing, and kink-informed modalities, The Kink Embodiment-Method Mentorship™ blends depth, structure, and radical liberation.

Whether you're on a personal healing journey or a practitioner integrating somatic kink into your work, this mentorship provides hands-on support, expert training, and embodied transformation.

Meet Your Guide.

My name is Domina Anne Shirley

I’m a trauma-informed Dominatrix, somatic coach, and sacred provocateur. I’ve spent over a decade guiding people back into their bodies, their power, and their pleasure. I’ve helped therapists unfreeze, coaches reclaim their voice, and survivors remember their softness and their strength. This mentorship is the culmination of my life’s work and my deepest devotion.

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What Sets This Mentorship Apart.

  • We don’t just teach kink, we teach healing through power, sensation, and somatic presence.

  • Most trauma programs stay cerebral. We go into the body with radical consent and sacred dominance.

  • You’ll be mentored in your personal embodiment and professional integrity, no bypassing.

  • This is a sacred rebellion against hustle culture, therapeutic dryness, and disconnected kink.

  • This is not a group program, this is intimate, personalized, and fully focused on you.

  • This is not kink as fantasy, this is kink as nervous system healing, structure, and embodied truth.

  • This is not another strategy, this is devotion, ritual, and the sacred art of re-regulating your power.

Who This Program is For...

  • Individuals healing from trauma who want a body-centered, experiential approach

  • Coaches, therapists, and practitioners integrating somatic and kink-informed work

  • People who feel stuck in traditional talk therapy and are ready for something deeper

  • Anyone seeking to reconnect with their body and reclaim power through conscious power dynamics

  • All genders and orientations

  • Individuals ready to shift from performance to presence

  • Anyone healing from trauma patterns like freeze, fawn, control fatigue, or shame

  • People who crave ritual, structure, and power that feels earned, not borrowed

Who This Mentorship is Not For...

  • Those looking for entertainment, fantasy play, escape, distractions or quick fixes

  • Individuals unwilling to engage with the discomfort of deep inner work

  • People who are not open to exploring power dynamics through a trauma-informed lens

  • Those who require clinical mental health care (referrals are available)

What You'll Experience.

  • Nervous System Regulation

  • Trauma-Informed Embodiment Practices

  • The Kink-Embodiment Method™ for healing and transformation

  • Somatic Mapping & Sensation-Based Integration

  • Conscious Power Exchange & Healing Through Play

  • Ethical, Kink-Positive Facilitation Skills​​

Embodied Results.

  • You’ll cry and feel safe doing it.

  • You’ll say no without shrinking.

  • You’ll touch your own skin with reverence, and mean it.

  • You’ll speak from your pelvis instead of your people-pleasing mask.

  • You’ll hold others with power, presence, and pleasure.

Professional Endorsements

“This is the most comprehensive trauma-informed kink program I’ve seen. I refer clients here regularly.”

​- C. Hart, Licensed Clinical Therapist

“The blend of kink and somatics in this container is nuanced, ethical, and truly transformative. I’ve recommended it to colleagues and clients alike.” - A. Rivera, Trauma-Informed Coach & Educator

Here’s What You Receive.

  • 3 × 90-minute private sessions/month (Zoom)

  • 1 week/month for integration, digestion, and ritual

  • Signal support for real-time processing, command, and care

  • Personalized obedience tasks, structure design, and ritual planning

  • Access to curriculum: voice-led practices, archetype integration, boundary + consent frameworks

  • Optional devotional task-based protocol if desired

  • Kink Embodiment Journal + Workbook

  • Somatic + Kink Integration Practices

  • Scene Negotiation Templates + Consent Scripts

  • Resource Library: meditations, breathwork, embodiment exercises

  • Optional Advanced Practitioner Path™ with mentorship and practicum

  • Bonus private session for early enrollment

How This Changes Lives.

Your breath slows. Your body stops bracing. You speak from truth instead of trauma. You hold others not from your wounds, but from your wholeness. That’s what this mentorship cultivates.

Program Curriculum: The 5 Pillars of The Kink-Embodiment Method™

Pillar 1: Trauma & Nervous System Foundations

  • Understanding fight, flight, freeze, and fawn

  • The body's trauma responses and how kink facilitates healing

  • Self-regulation before engaging in kink

  • Relational trauma and how that shapes you and others in the world

  • Differentiating between healing kink and re-traumatization​

Pillar 2: Consent, Boundaries & Power Dynamics

  • Frameworks for ethical, embodied consent

  • Conscious power exchange and boundary-setting

  • Empowerment and safety through role-play and dynamics

Pillar 3: Somatic Practices & BDSM Integration

  • Merging somatic healing with kink play

  • Sensory tools for emotional release and nervous system repair

  • Subspace, top space, and embodied awareness

Pillar 4: Ethical Practice & Client Readiness

(For those who move onto the Advanced Practitioner Path™).

  • Trauma screening and scope of practice

  • Non-pathologizing, kink-affirming care

  • Cultural awareness and practitioner responsibility

Pillar 5: Application, Integration & Business Support (For those who move onto the Advanced Practitioner Path™).

  • Scene negotiation, aftercare, and journaling tools

  • Building a sustainable, kink-informed practice

  • Personal brand, voice development, and ethical marketing

The Kink-Embodiment Method Mentorship™

What You'll Receive: 

  • 3 × 90-minute private sessions/month (Zoom)

  • 1 week/month for integration, digestion, and ritual

  • Signal support for real-time processing, command, and care

  • Personalized obedience tasks, structure design, and ritual planning

  • Access to curriculum: voice-led practices, archetype integration, boundary + consent frameworks

  • Optional devotional task-based protocol if desired

Core Curriculum Themes

  1. Nervous System Repair through Somatic Kink

  2. Consent, Boundaries, and Power Integrity

  3. Erotic Identity, Discipline, and Devotion

  4. Rupture Repair + Emotional Authority

  5. Pleasure, Safety, and Sacred Structure

Advanced 1:1 Training: The Practitioner Path™

6-Month Private Mentorship for Practitioners Integrating Ethical, Trauma-Informed Kink into Their Client Work

This is not a group program or certification factory. This is an advanced, fully 1:1 mentorship for coaches, somatic practitioners, healers, and facilitators who have completed the core mentorship and are ready to ethically wield power in service to others.

What You’ll Receive (Practitioner Track):

  • 3 × 90-minute private sessions/month (Zoom)

  • 1 week/month for integration and supervision

  • Signal support for ethical questions, client scenarios, and integration

  • Continued access to rituals, protocol tools, and embodiment support

Practitioner curriculum:

  • Ethical power and scope

  • Consent and screening systems

  • Rupture repair in client containers

  • Task and protocol design for others

  • Final integration project + feedback

Expected Outcomes

  • Personal transformation and trauma integration

  • Somatic and kink facilitation skills

  • Ethical and embodied business development

  • Expanded nervous system capacity and relational repair

  • Tools to support client breakthroughs in healing, intimacy, and power

  • Clients have gone on to create group programs, write books, lead retreats, and facilitate power exchange from a trauma-informed lens

Sasha B., Somatic Coach & Educator

“This mentorship changed the way I relate to my body, my power, and my clients. I came in feeling stuck in trauma loops and left with tools to guide others through transformation. It was intimate, rigorous, and deeply sacred.”

Client Case Studies.

Case Study 1

Name: Anonymous

 
Challenge: Chronic dissociation, people-pleasing, and trauma stored in the body.


Journey: This client began exploring somatic kink through guided scenes and breathwork to reconnect with sensation and boundaries. Over 12 months, they expanded their emotional capacity, reclaimed their voice in their relationships, and began offering their own kink-informed healing sessions.


Result: They now run a thriving trauma-informed practice with a strong client base, teaching others how to reclaim their bodies through conscious power exchange.

Case Study 2


Name: Anonymous


Challenge: Emotional burnout as a helping professional, lack of boundaries with clients, and fear of claiming power.


Journey: Through mentorship, they explored Dominant archetypes, integrated somatic boundary-setting practices, and reclaimed their erotic power through kink play.


Result: They redesigned their practice to be sustainable, boundary-honoring, and rooted in embodied leadership. They now serve as a mentor to others seeking ethical kink facilitation.

Investment & Enrollment.

The Kink-Embodiment Method Mentorship™


6-Month 1:1 High-Touch Container:

  • $7,500 paid in full, or

  • $1,250/month for 6 months

  • $625/month for 12 months

 

 

This is not a quick fix. It is a sacred, high-accountability partnership built to transform how you relate to your body, power, structure, and self.

Optional Advanced Training: Practitioner Path™

Upon successful completion of the mentorship, eligible mentees may apply for the practitioner path, a separate 6-month training program designed to help professionals ethically integrate kink-informed frameworks into client work.

This advanced practitioner path carries both the intimacy of private mentorship and the responsibility of ethical legacy-building. You’ll receive the same high-touch structure with an added layer of rigor, supervision, and embodied accountability as you prepare to carry this work into the world.

This track includes:

  • Monthly 1:1 sessions

  • Ethics and scope training

  • Case studies and final project

  • Consent and power dynamic training

  • Supervision and practitioner tools

 

6-Month 1:1 High-Touch Container for Practitioner Path™:

 

  • $9,000 PIF, or

  • $1,500/month for 6 months

  • $750/month for 12 months

 

*Mentorship completion is required prior to enrollment.

Accessibility & Inclusion.

We honor neurodivergence, sensory preferences, and energy pacing. Breaks, rest, and choice are central to our structure. Our containers welcome all gender identities, relationship structures, and kink expressions.

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Why I Created This Mentorship.

As a trauma-informed Dominatrix and transformational guide, I saw a gap between healing and pleasure, between power and consent, between embodiment and kink. This mentorship is my sacred response to that gap, a place where the personal and professional meet through sensation, sovereignty, and deep somatic reverence. I created this because I believe your body is wise, your power is sacred, and your healing deserves devotion.

Credentials & Credibility.

Created by a trauma-informed Dominatrix, degreed and certified in:

  • Somatic Trauma Therapy

  • Consent & Ethics in BDSM Spaces

  • Professional Coaching & Facilitation

  • Kink-Positive Somatic Psychology

  • Somatic Psychology 

  • Relational Trauma Therapy

  • Attachment Theory 

Our Commitment to Integrity & Liberation.

This mentorship is rooted in anti-oppression, trauma-awareness, and body sovereignty. All identities, orientations, and lived experiences are welcomed and respected. We believe in the healing power of embodied choice, radical consent, and collective liberation.

Frequently Asked Questions.

Q: Do I need to be experienced with kink or BDSM to join?
A: No experience is required. This mentorship meets you where you are, with consent-based, personalized support.

Q: Is this program trauma-informed?
A: Yes. Trauma safety, consent, and integration are at the core of every session.

Q: Can I use this training professionally?
A: Yes. Completion and certification are available for those integrating this work into their professional practice.

Q: Is this a group program?
A: No. This is a private 1:1 mentorship for deep personal transformation.

Q:What if I’m not a practitioner?
A: The core mentorship is designed for your personal healing and embodiment. Practitioner training is optional and by application only.

Q: How do I apply?
A: Click on any of the bottoms and schedule a free consultation with me. 

Q: Do you offer refunds?
A: No refunds are granted. All sales are final. This policy honors the sacred commitment to this deep work, and ensures the integrity of the container for everyone involved.

Ready to Reclaim Your Power?

Click any button to sign up for a free consultation to join The Kink Embodiment-Method Mentorship™


Spaces are limited to preserve intimacy and depth.

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The Kink Embodiment-Method Mentorship™ Because healing is holy, power is sacred, and your body remembers how to come home.

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